Judith Pearle considers herself to be an educated, intelligent and a working professional. And yet she was swayed by these very polished scammers . There are very sophisticated scammers out there who obviously make a living as a romance cheat. The less sophisticated ones are easy to spot as they very quickly ask for money . It is the first group of scammers that ladies really need to be aware of. When she first registered for dating sites as a paid member she stupidly assumed that all those guys registered on these sites are also on the same page as she was. It was after many connections later that she realised guys who registered on dating sites are more likely scammers. It made perfect sense to pay a few hundred dollars membership fees to have access to a rich data of lonely souls looking for love. Dating sites whether paid or free are rich hunting grounds for these unscrupulous scammers looking for victims. This prompted her to write a book to at least help ladies who are venturing into dating sites for first time . To let them know how to spot the frogs or the toads and to hopefully shorten the learning curve in their search for their Prince Charming. She hopes her book will help them to kiss less frogs before meeting the one. Or to avoid meeting scammers altogether.