The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. Content
Foreword - 7
Introduction - 9
About the Author - - 9
How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11
Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12
Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15
Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17
The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19
Why Does a Man Submit? - 20
The Silence Challenge - - 24
The Femdom Mindset - - 28
The Malesub Mindset - - 30
The SSC Principle - 31
The RACK Principle - 33
Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38
Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41
Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52
The Location - - 52
What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57
Greeting the Mistress - 58
Practical Tips - - 60
Practical Examples - - 62
A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63
Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68
Practical Exercise - - 68
Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69
The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78
The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143
The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144
The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146
The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163
Saying No - - 167
Slave Questionnaire - - 169
Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176
Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181
The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181
The Ruined Orgasm - 185
Forced Orgasms - 186
Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191
The Follow-up Conversation - - 193
Hygiene - - 197 Lesso